Remembering My Friend Joe Esposito: Elvis’ Foreman Of The Memphis Mafia



HOLLYWOOD,CA.:November 29, 2016 — It was just the day before Thanksgiving, like any other day really. That morning, my friend Joe Esposito crossed my mind and I hoped he was doing okay. I thought “It would be good to see him and talk with him.” I last saw Joe in Las Vegas this past April. I had seen some rumors online that Joe had passed away, I called Shirley Dieu immediately, but I couldn’t get through, so I sent her a text. Shirley replied “Joe has left us.”


Joe had passed away that morning. I contacted Larry Geller, Mindi Miller and Patsy Andersen-Presley. We could all relate to the loss of our mutual friend. It reminded me of another day, when Elvis passed away. It’s been almost a week now and it’s difficult to wrap around my head that I won’t be able to talk and see him again.

Joe Esposito and Elvis Presley in  1970.

I first met Joe in 1970, Colonel Tom Parker had made arrangements for my dad and I to see Elvis for a few moments during his engagement at the Astrodome. I was 9-years-old at the time. To meet with Elvis in many cases, you first met Joe Esposito. Joe was a longtime friend that Elvis had met while they both were in the Army. Elvis offered Joe a job with him, instead of Esposito returning to his home town of Chicago. Joe accepted and became the foreman of the fabled Memphis Mafia and later Elvis’ road manager from 1969-1977.


Little did I know at that first meeting how important Joe Esposito would be in my life and what a good friend he would be to me in my life. I saw Joe quite a few times after that meeting. Joe escorted me to see Elvis a few months after my parents and sister were killed in a train accident. He was there as Elvis told me, trying to console me, saying: “A great philosopher once said: ‘To live in the hearts that we leave behind – is not to die.”

Don Wilson and Joe Esposito at the Memphis Airport.


I have a flood of memories of Joe Esposito, lots of serious moments, some funny stories and memories of Elvis that he sahred, that I will never tell, because they are private. 

I also remember the business side of Joe and how intense and protective of Elvis he was. Some days I though he was tough, but he was looking out for Elvis. He may say “No pictures today.” Joe Esposito did a fantastic job for Elvis, his loyalty lasted until he last day.

Joe Esposito, Don Wilson and Charlie Hodge in Nashville, Tennessee in 2001.


In 2000, I was working on a documentary series called “The Definitive Elvis”, what was to be 16 episodes. I was setting up and conducting interviews and doing good. I had gone to see Custom Car builder George Barris and he said “You should come around in a couple of days, Joe Esposito will be here.”


I did talk with Joe and I told him what I was doing, I suggested that he come on board with the project. Joe did come down to the office and he met the CEO that afternoon. He agreed to participate. We were now both Production Consultants for the series and I saw him on a day to day basis until 2002.

Don Wilson and Joe Esposito atop the Aladdin Hotel in Las Vegas in 2001.


It was work and it was fun, he’s say: “Who did you get for an interview?” I replied “Glen Campbell.” He’d say “I got “Mac Davis.” It was a friendly competition of sorts. Once he said “I got Kenny Rogers, we meet him at the Hilton in Vegas. Who’d you get this time?” I said “Eddy Arnold, when we go to Nashville.” Joe was stunned. He said “You got Eddy Arnold, he won’t talk about The Colonel! Joe came by Eddy’s office when I did the interview and then he said: “He talked about The Colonel. How did you do that?” I loved to surprise him.

Joe Esposito and Mac Davis in Beverly Hills, California. Photo: Don Wilson


Whoever came down for an interview, whether he set it up or I did, I noticed one thing: Everybody loved Joe and being around him. So did I. I wore a gold shirt and a gold tie before we went to Cassandra Peterson’s house and Joe asked “Where’s the show?” I said “I gotta look good for Elvira!”

Cassandra Peterson and Joe Esposito in Hollywood in 2001. Photo: Don Wilson

Joe would put everyone at ease if they were nervous. One young lady who was nervous was Joe’s daughter, Cindy Esposito. At the time, she had never been in front of a camera. She spoke of playing with Lisa Marie Presley when they were both little. We never used the interview, but I still have it.


We’d leave each other notes, he’s fax information and his schedules that he set up for interviews and I did the same. I kept them all. Over 200 interviews were done, I conducted most of them and then I said “Joe, You ask some questions too. He was reluctant at first, then he began to enjoy it!”



Mindi Miller and Joe Esposito in 2001. Photo: Don Wilson


Joe didn’t like to pose for a lot of pictures, I kept a camera on hand and I talked to him saying: “Joe, You haven’t seen this person for a long time, lets’ get a shot.” He’d never ask for a photo, I would ask for one with me and with Joe and he’s say “Okay.” Thankfully, I did that because a lot of photographs with Joe and friends exist now, that didn’t before.

Jerry Weintraub and Joe Esposito. Photo: Don Wilson



One poignant interview was with Jerry Weintraub, a concert promoter for Elvis. We met at Weintraub’s Warner Brothers office and went over the years he had working with Elvis, Colonel Parker and of course, Joe. When the subject of Elvis’ death came up, we all went back and we were all in tears.


I remember Joe was on a diet and he said “You are going to help me!” I said, “But, Joe I don’t need to lose weight.” Joe continued, wherever we go and whatever we order, you eat half and I will eat half. It will work!” That’s what we did and it did work! Once we went to a 7-11 store and he got a Popsicle and broke off half and gave it to me. Joe looked and me and said: “Half of everything!”


 I remember we ate at a lot of Italian restaurants and he loved seafood too. He did pick on me, once when we were in Nashville, Joe found a seafood place. “It’s the best in town! he said. I ordered a steak. He said “This is the best seafood place in town and you order a steak!” He shook his head and smiled.


Joe and I went to the Hard Rock Cafe in Nashville the next day. I noticed a lot of photos with Elvis and Joe on display with some artifacts. I sat down to order. The waitress took my order first. I said “You have a lot of photos of Elvis with his road manager, Joe Esposito.” Joe kicked me under the table, he didn’t want attention. I said “Meet my friend his name is Joe too, he met Elvis once!” She smiled and say “Oh, really? What was he like?” Joe answered “Oh, he was nice…” She said “Oh, that’s great! I will go get your orders.” Joe said “Don, I’m gonna get you for that!” I said “Joe, That was funny! Little did she know.” Jo said “yeah, it was kinda funny…”

Folsom Prison close to Sacramento, California.


One time when we went to Joe’s house in El Dorado Hills, California we were eating breakfast and he said “You want to go to Folsom Prison? You like Johnny Cash, let’s go there. It’s just up the road from here.” So, we went to Folsom Prison. Joe said “We can’t go in, I’m sure we really don’t want to go in!” We stood there awhile and then he said “Okay, let’s go!” We went to Joe’s house and he gave me a tour. He pulled out a jacket from 1969 and said “This is what I wore when Elvis came back to Vegas. Can you believe I wore that? I couldn’t now. Maybe I can if this diet works!”


It seems we were always on the go, Nashville, Memphis, Las Vegas – wherever they was a story or an interview to do. I would have my cell phone near me at all times and I would hear that familiar voice: “Hello Don, This is Joe. Are you up? Meet me downstairs and we will have breakfast. We have work to do!”

Joe Esposito, Niecy Green, Don Wilson and Shirley Dieu in Las Vegas.


I last saw Joe Esposito this past April in Las Vegas. I had been talking with Shirley Dieu, his former girlfriend during Joe’s days with Elvis. Shirley stayed a close friend until the end. My girlfriend and I visited Shirley at her home and she said “I will call you in the morning if you can have breakfast with Joe and I.”


I received a call from Shirley and we went to the restaurant and shortly thereafter they both pulled up and we had a nice breakfast. I told my usual jokes and Joe would laugh and say “Now, that’s funny!” He had lost a lot of weight and wasn’t feeling too good, but he had that spark in his eyes, as he always had. I am glad I was able to see Joe that last time. Thanks Shirley.


It hasn’t sunk in just yet. Joe told me that after Elvis died that it didn’t sink in until much later. He was doing some paperwork and it just hit him. I hope that you have enjoyed some of my personal memories of Joe. I had to wait a bit before I could write about them. I could write a book here, but I will close. My hope is that you could see a bit of the Joe that I knew. He was a helluva guy, respectful, a trusted friend, a problem solver, he looked after his friends. He was the epitome of a good friend and he had a big heart. We miss him and we love him. The world won’t be the same without him. Thank God we have the memories. Elvis used to say “There is a reason for everything.” So, maybe there is a reason I have written this piece about Joe.



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Elvis – 43 Presidents in USA – One King

Time will tell, that’s the old saying and it is true. It’s been nearly 40 years since Elvis Presley was found unresponsive in his bathroom at Graceland. Crowds that weren’t seen even for heads of state descended upon Graceland. The world mourned, even those who weren’t fans of the king were saddened and the realization came to them: “If Elvis could die at 42, so can I.” Reality set in for many. Elvis was bigger than life in many ways. It seems to be that way, even now.

 

Longtime friend Charlie Hodge assists Elvis with a microphone in June 1977 at one of Elvis’ last concerts.

“There have been many pretenders, there have been many contenders…the United States has had 43 presidents – but only one king!” Those of the words of Elvis’ friend George Klein, they knew each other since both of them were 12 years old.

Elvis, George Klein, Milton Prell and Charlie Holdge in 1967.

Klein a high school friend, became a close confidante and companion of Elvis’, he traveled on tour with Elvis when he wasn’t a DJ on WHBQ radio or on the sister TV station with his sow, “Talent Party”. GK as he is known was a groomsman at Elvis’ wedding and he introduced several women to Elvis that became a close companion to the king.Elvis was Klein’s best man when GK married Barbara Bauer on December 5, 1970 in Las Vegas.

 

 

There we go with that title again, “the king”. Elvis really didn’t like it, he was humble, a Christian, strong in his faith. At concerts when fans called him “the king” and held signs up called him “king”, he’d say: “No, I’m just a singer. Jesus Christ is King, remember that.

 

 

 

 

Elvis is no longer with us, unfortunately. However, in a way, he never left. Witness all of the thousands of fans and admirers who travel to Graceland at all times of the year. Graceland is second only to The White House in the number of visitors.

 

Then there are the new record releases of Elvis with The Royal Philharmonic Orchestra. The first CD release “If I Can Dream” went Triple Platinum!

 

 

A new release with The Royal Philharmonic will be released on October 21, 2016. It is sure to equal or surpass the “If I Can Dream” release. This is great evidence that “Elvis Himselvis” as George Klein famously called him in “Elvis On Tour” – is here to stay! Listen to The George Klein Show on Elvis Radio Sirius XM on Fridays – worldwide!

 

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Elvis Week 2016 – Elvis Lives!

                          

by Don Wilson

Elvis Presley lives in Memphis – in the hearts of his loyal fans who journey to Graceland to remember him. Although Elvis Presley passed away on August 16, 1977, his presence is still felt by longtime fans and he continues to attract, in great numbers, new and young fans as well. This Elvis Week drew many fans,although some stayed at home, saving up for the big anniversary next year – the fortieth! Can it really be forty years since Elvis left this world? You could never tell in the enthusiasm of his fans that gathered for events at his home. So much was going on that I wasn’t able to do all that I had wished to do.

This writer avoids the tent set up which features Elvis impersonators though. I would walk by and hear many hit bad notes and since I am not tone deaf, I will pass on that. There is no doubt that many ETA’s (Elvis Tribute Artists) are sincere, some are nice guys, some are friends, others almost seem to think they are Elvis. I prefer the real Elvis. I have the right to criticize, because at one time, I was an ETA, but I preferred the title “Elvis Illusionist”, I would rather give the illusion that someone may think for a split second, it could be Elvis himself. I hung up my jumpsuit when I hit 40 years old, it was fun for a time, it’s like the saying, “Been there, done that.” I have. There’s nothing like the real thing, Elvis Himselvis. It may be fun for others, but not me. I was able to be around Elvis and I have wonderful memories of him, this year, I couldn’t go up. The last time I went inside Graceland was around 2001, I was with other friends of Elvis’s, Sam Thompson and Richard Davis, we were on a VIP tour. Maybe I will go next time.

Memphis resident and Elvis fan Shantay Wood said: “It was exactly 39 years ago that I saw Elvis. I spent the week before he died here watching and waiting. It was an incredible week!” The photo below shows Wood with Elvis’s drummer D.J. Fontana. Wood comments: “Shortly before the Candlelight Vigil for Elvis, I had the pleasure of running into legendary drummer D.J. Fontana at Rockabilly’s Cafe  in the Graceland Plaza. D.J. was his usual friendly self, welcoming fans and happily posing for photos at fans’ request. D.J. looked frail and was in a wheelchair accompanied by Karen Fontana. He is truly the last man standing, now that long time friend and original band member, guitarist Scotty Moore has passed away.”

Shantay Wood with friend, D.J. Fontana.

Elvis represents many things to many people. Bob Dylan said of Elvis: “Hearing him for the first time was like busting out of jail!” Ken Andrews, founder of the South Bay Music Awards said of Elvis:” Elvis defined the word, “Swag” man. And he always had chicks, beautiful chicks!” Rock star Robert Plant: “He was just amazing and spectacular. He really opened the door to my whole love of music. Because of him,, and because of the choice of his material, I found Smiley Lewis (and) all of those great singers.” I will share more quotes from performers, friends and fans in upcoming installments of this series and will explain why Elvis still lives nearly forty years after his untimely death.

The events at Graceland kept the fans busy this year. The complex that the fans have known will be gone by the time they come back in April 2017. There will be a total revamping and a new state of the art complex will be built, actually it has already started. No more tents for the main stage, next year will be the big year, in more ways than one. Fans are conflicted, not everyone likes change, but many are looking forward to the changes. It will be sad to see the Heartbreak Hotel go, but the Guest House is the new baby of Elvis Presley Enterprises and  hopes are high for the success of the new hotel. The price of the hotel is steep and many fans can’t afford it. The question is how will they ever keep it filled year round and not just during Elvis celebrations.I will keep you posted. 

Tom Brown, formerly of Turner Classic Movies is a likable and engaging host to Elvis events during Elvis Week and also on You Tube, in the series, “Gates Of Graceland”. Brown is very popular with the fans and is perfect for the job. This years roster of guests for “Conversations On Elvis” included Elvis’s movie co-star Celeste Yarnall, she appeared with Elvis in the 1968 M-G-M film, “Live A Little, Love A Little”. Yarnall told Elvis that “A Little Less Conversation” (the song he sang to her in the film) would be a number one song. She was right, but the song wouldn’t hit number one until it was released as a single in 2001.

Ms. Yarnall became emotional talking about Elvis, you could tell that even though these memories from 1968 were long ago, they stayed with her and they remain to this day. Celeste has always been a fan favorite, and this appearance was no exception. She spoke of her bout with cervical cancer and thanked the fans for their support and encouragement. Yarnall happily signed 8×10’s for the fans and even a t-shirt, in which she liked.

Tom Brown with actress Celeste Yarnall
Celeste Yarnall and Don Wilson

Warren Berlinger was also on hand, Berlinger portrayed ‘Phillip Short’ who was Elvis’s rival for Shelley Fabares’s affection in the 1966 M-G-M film, “Spinout”. Berlinger said that many fans felt like they already knew him after seeing him with Elvis for so long. It was apparent, he was right. After his appearance he signed for waiting fans in line for autographs.

Tom Brown with actor Warren Berlinger.
Christopher Riordan meets Australian Elvis fan Heidi Sargent.

Christopher Riordan, a dancer and actor (discovered by Hermes Pan and Fred Astaire) appeared for the first time at a Elvis Presley Enterprises event. Riordan appeared in eight Presley films, dancing in the background, usually close to Elvis in scenes. Riordan also danced in the NBC-TV special “Elvis” in 1968. Hen told of how he met Elvis and continued to be called for work on Presley movies. I ran into Christopher just after his VIP tour of Graceland, he was with Graceland Archivist Brian Johnson. Riordan teared up after he talked of touring Elvis’s Graceland home for the first time.

Brian Johnson, Christopher Riordan and Don Wilson.

Tom Brown with dancer/actor Christopher Riordan.

Ray Walker, the bass singer for The Jordanaires gave a singing lesson to Tom Brown and explained how he coached Elvis to hit those big notes. For example: The song “Surrender”. The last two words, “to me” were sung operatic. Walker told Elvis to act as if he were to throw up and pull those notes up. It worked, obviously for Elvis, whose single skyrocketed up the charts in 1961.

Tom Brown with Ray Walker of The Jordanaires,

Estelle Brown, the last of the original Sweet Inspirations, looked radiant and was very engaging to Brown and the crowd, as she remembered Elvis. The Sweet Inspirations were Myrna Smith, Sylvia Shemwell, Estelle Brown and Cissy Houston (Whitney’s mother) Houston left the group in 1970. Brown spoke of Elvis fondly. She spoke of how The Sweet Inspirations were surprised when Elvis broke out into their signature song, “Sweet Inspiration” one night in Las Vegas.

Tom Brown with Estelle Brown of “The Sweet Inspirations”.

D.J. Fontana, Elvis’s legendary drummer from 1955- 1968 attended the event and spoke of the touring days of the 1950’s with Elvis. Fontana was also awarded a Musical Note award that will be on Beale Street in Memphis. Fontana joined Elvis after the Louisiana Hayride and last played with Elvis on the NBC-TV special, “Elvis” in 1968. It was fascinating to hear Fontana tell of making films with Elvis as well.

 

Drummer D.J. Fontana is awarded a Musical Note award.

Actress Francine York, who appeared with Elvis in the 1965 film, “Tickle Me” was unable to appear due to her battling pneumonia in a Los Angeles hospital, thankfully she was released days ago. Her absence was filled by Donnie Sumner and Bill Baize, two members of The Stamps Quartet that backed Elvis from 1972-1977 on stage. A clip from the film “Elvis On Tour” The Stamps Quartet performing “Sweet, Sweet Spirit” was projected on the large screen, shown in it’s entirety. Elvis loved Gospel music and this song was a favorite of his.

Author Peter Guralnick spoke of his friendship with Sam Phillips: The Man Who Invented Rock And Roll is an excellent biography of “The Father Of Rock And Roll”. Guralnick signed copies of his book, following his appearance, which featured rare video of Phillips. Guralnick is a favorite author for Presley fans, he penned the hit books, “Careless Love” and “Last Train To Memphis”.

Tom Brown with author Peter Guralnick.

Other notable guests included Hal Lanksy of Lansky’s, where Elvis bought many of his clothes,  Dr. Charles Hughes, Director of the Memphis Center at Rhodes College and professor for the course there entitled Elvis Presley and America.

Tom Brown with Dr. Charles Hughes of Rhodes College.

John Jackson and Ernst Jorgensen of Sony/BMG appeared and spoke of Elvis music catalog and projects, including the new release on CD and vinyl, “Way Down In The Jungle Room”. The news is that the album is moving right up the charts and is outselling the new album, “The Beatles Live At The Hollywood Bowl”. It’s almost as if it’s 1965 again with Elvis and The Beatles on the charts, vying for the top position.

Tom Brown interviews Ernst Jorgensen and John Jackson.

Brown interviewed the TCB Band as they came back to the den of Graceland where Elvis’s last two recording sessions were held. The video shot inside Graceland was shown to the “Graceland Insiders”.Elvis never called the den ‘Jungle Room”, but it caught on and you gotta admit “way Down In The Jungle Room” is a great title. The first disc are the master recordings from the February and October 1976 sessions, the second disc is the fun one, with Elvis’s banter with the musicians included,. as well as some humorous ad libs.

Elvis pictured at Graceland in February 1976, holding his current hit album.

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The only complaint for the events was that one security guard rushed the fans too much. I learned that there are two different division of security. Security for Graceland and also a team for events. During an event in the tent (the Elvis Main Stage) it started to pour rain, it eased temporarily. Using the opportunity, some fans left with a wristband to their cars to retrieve umbrellas, but were unable to return to the tent. A female security guard refused re-entry saying ‘The event is over.” It was clearly was not over, a long line snaked around in anticipation of meeting Elvis’s friends and co-stars.

These events cost $20 and $40 each. While they are worth the price of admission, the security needs to loosen up a bit, they were still on schedule. The general consensus of fans that I spoke with stated: ‘It was like, get in and get out!”. Knowing Elvis, I can tell you that Elvis would not like it. Elvis respected the police very much, but if he thought the police were being too rough with his fans, he’d tell them in no uncertain terms to back off. Elvis used to tell his uncle, Vester Presley, who was a gate guard: “Be good to my fans, Uncle Vester, they’re the ones who put me on the hill!”

In contrast to that event, other Graceland employees were very polite and helpful to fans. Some employees handed out “Elvis: Way Down In The Jungle Room” fans to help fans beat the heat and humidity. The weather was very unusual for August, heat, humidity, then rain and back again.

With all of the news and events, there was also the Black Lives Matter protest. I stood directly behind the Memphis Police and watched the goings on for an hour. I heard them shout “Black lives matter!” and “Shoot us! Shoots us!” and it was quickly quelled. I saw a lone blonde woman facing the protesters with a large sign saying “Elvis Lives Matter”. I will say this: All Lives Matter! Protesters just wanted to use this opportunity to bring their message, it didn’t really work

Memphis Police hold back protesters at Graceland. Photos: (c) Don Wilson

 I spoke with a Graceland security officer and he said that everyone would be safe and there would be no problems. He was right I commend the Memphis Police Department and Graceland Security, they performed to the best of their abilities and I thanked them personally, I was not the only one.The Memphis Police Department cordoned off and blocked off both sides of Elvis Presley Boulevard and prevented protesters from coming on the property. The protesters were not in a great size and there were few arrests.

Memphis Police Officer James Schmedes said: “So there we were, about a block south of Graceland. The call had come down for the riot team to move into position. The line looked like some kind of modern day Roman legion with armor of plastic and Kevlar, instead of leather and bronze. Hickory sticks and pistols took the place of sword and spear. we stood there waiting for the order to move up. ready to go and feeling the anticipation before the action, time seemed to stand still for a moment, when lightning cracked across the sky above us. Imagine, jast as the second when things are going to get hairy, four things happen at once. lightning flashes. from behind us, Elvis starts singing “Are You Lonesome Tonight?” The rain comes down by the bucket and everyone is drenched instantly. The crowd disperses. So, I ask you, did Elvis stop the violence that was about to break loose in front of his home? This was a scene from a movie and very cool to be part of. The other officers standing next to me , felt the same way.”


I was talking with Elvis fan Sherry Evans from Indiana midday and we spoke about the protesters and  what she thought about it and she said to me: ” I believe Elvis will do something about that. There will be a lightning bolt coming down or something!” She was right on the money, it didn’t come off the way the protesters had planned the event to be. Even Rush Limbaugh spoke on his radio show about the protesters: “Graceland has nothing to do with it”, meaning their cause. It was only because the press was on hand.

The Memphis Police block protesters on August 15, 2016.

It was a rainy Candlelight Service for Elvis, no special speakers, except Sirius XM DJ Argo Memphis who is the usual host. Jack Soden, CEO of Graceland spoke about the new Guest House Hotel that was built near Graceland. Singer Terry Mike Jeffrey spoke of meeting Elvis in 1969 and his friendship with Presley aide, Charlie Hodge. The faithful went up the hill with candles remembering the man they’ve loved for so many years. The crowd usually stayed long after the vigil in years past, however with the downpour of rain, many fans went back to their hotels, others met with one another and continued shopping or eating together in the shops across from Graceland. So much did happen, this is only part one of a series of why Elvis still lives!

Elvis’s final resting place at Meditation Garden, Graceland.
Betty Harper and Don Wilson with some of Betty’s marvelous work.

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Big Jim Sykes and George Klein keep the fans entertained on Sirius  XM’s Elvis Radio on Channel 19 on Fridays 2-6 p.m. CST. Photo: (c) Don Wilson

Don Wilson and longtime friend George Klein in the Sirius XM studio.

Big Jim Sykes and Don Wilson at Graceland Plaza.

Elvis Presley performing during the NBC-TV Special, “Elvis” in 1968. Photo: NBC

Looking back on Memphis and being away for awhile, I still feel like I am there in a way. Memphis was home to me for many years and I do miss being there. In some ways it’s the same, in other ways so different. Of course, it will never be the way it used to be. There’s a certain smell in the air, although it’s different somehow from the days that Elvis was living in the city.

As I revisited the city, I could almost imagine Elvis where I had seen him before barreling down Elvis Presley Boulevard on his three-wheeler motor bike or driving down South Parkway. I went down that street recalling Elvis driving around the tree line area of the city. I was on the way to meet my longtime friend, Steve Ramsey at a record shop. I was in search of original Elvis records to replace in my collection. After two marriages, things sometime disappear here and there.

Elvis stops for a pretty fan as he leaves Graceland on a custom made three-wheeler bike in 1975,

Around every corner there lurked a memory of Elvis for me, places he went, things he liked to do. There is that unmistakable energy that is still present. In this story, part two in a series, I want to bring to you memories and thoughts of some true Elvis fans, why they love him and what draws them to this one of a kind man. If you don’t understand the phenomenon, maybe you will, after you read these heartfelt sentiments.

Leah Jeffreys on the walkway to Elvis’s Memphis home, Graceland.

Leah Jeffreys remembers Elvis: “I grew up listening to Elvis, as my mother played his music on her small phonograph. I could have called myself a fan at six-years-old, simply because I loved the sound of his voice, and the music was different from anything I had heard before. And, of course, as I grew  older I thought he had to be the most beautiful and sexiest man on the face of the earth, but it wasn’t until I learned who Elvis, the man was, that I became a loyal fan. Elvis was so genuine, so humble, so gracious, and to quote Sam Phillips, “different”, and boy was he different, in such an amazing way!” 

“The man who grew up in poverty, and made it all the way to the top, never changed who he was. His fans from the beginning, are still his fans today, along with millions of others. Throughout the years, I have had the pleasure of meeting hundreds of his fans from around the world, and I’ve never met a stranger. When we meet, it’s like we’ve known one another forever, and every year, as we trip to Memphis for Elvis Week, it has become a reunion of great friends we call family, and I think this will go on and on for many years to come. Elvis is alive in all our hearts…he  never really left us.”

“Someone asked me what I missed about Memphis – I said ‘Everything!’ ” – Elvis Presley, March 7, 1960

Sherry Evans, with Shirley Dieu, a close friend of Elvis’s, Charlie Shock and Elvis’s Road Manager, Joe Esposito in 2015.

Charlie Shock: “I thank Sherry Evans for introducing me to the world of Elvis. Every year, for the past four years have been filled with wonderful memories. I look forward to our yearly pilgrimage to Memphis. We go to Beale Street to listen to the music that helped shape Elvis’s appreciation for music. I am sure that he heard every note and every word and took the styles to heart. each year we meet new people from all over the world who appreciate this man who had a heart of gold. Each memory just reinforces what a truly incredible individual he was.

The “Conversations On Elvis” with Christopher Riordan, The Stamps and most of all meeting Celeste Yarnall! Celeste is adorable and I fell in love with her! Another highlight was hanging around for the candlelight vigil. I was so happy to be a part of that, and light a candle in honor of Elvis. I believe he felt the love of his fans, even from Heaven.”

Actress Celeste Yarnall signs for the Elvis fans after her on stage interview The brunette fan is Heidi Sargent from Australia,

“With all good things, there are some bad things. I was in the Elvis Tent, in line, wanting to meet Celeste Yarnall and a rude lady clamped her hand on my shoulder and screamed “No, No!..Oh No! You can’t go back there!” Celeste had invited me to come back so she could sign my shirt, thank goodness someone stepped in. The other bad thing was the protesters, they do not seem to take the time to realize that Elvis and Graceland are probably the saving grace for Memphis. There seems to be so much poverty there and without the income and popularity of Elvis and the fans who come daily to tour Graceland, that city could be in dire straits.”

Joe Esposito and Sherry Evans in Memphis, 2015.

Sherry Evans: “I was disheartened that there were going to be protesters attempting to disrupt the emotional candlelight vigil. Because of the diligence of the Memphis Police Department ( and a little heavenly help from Elvis) that attempt was thwarted. I don’t know the exact cause of their protest, however I do know that Elvis was not racial and this was the last place anyone with any knowledge of him should be protesting.”

Police, photographers and fans gather near where protesters were congregating near Graceland. Photo: Don Wilson

“Each year I look forward to Elvis week, because it’s the one vacation where I know there will be nothing but “Elvis Love” in the atmosphere. Although the weather put a damper on the candlelight vigil, the love and camaraderie was overflowing. I was able to meet three very special people I’ve been chatting with on Facebook in person. They were everything I expected and more! And of course, getting together with Tish and Barrey Kirk and Jo Cathy Brownlee-Elkington is always the icing on the pound cake! Elvis = Love, of that, I am sure!”

Note: Tish Henley-Kirk was Elvis’s Nurse.

Jo Cathy Brownlee-Elkington is a former girlfriend of Elvis’s.

Pictures Are Worth Thousands Of Words!

A highlight for me was the “Conversations On Elvis” presentation, hosted by Tom Brown. I received so many personal messages regarding part one of this story, here are some more images from the event. Knowledge of the true Elvis and not something written by an “Armchair Elvis Expert” is what’s truly important. These conversations are definitely something Elvis would have enjoyed. A special thanks to Shantay Wood for some of these images!

Tom Brown holding the new Elvis release on vinyl. Photo: Shantay Wood




Ray Walker gives Tom Brown a vocal lesson; “Tom, Can you moo like a cow?” Photo: Shantay Wood



Host Tom Brown made fashion statements. Everyone wanted to know where he got those cool shirts! Photo: Shantay Wood

Christopher Riordan signs fo the Elvis fans

Christopher Riordan and Tom Brown at the beginning of Riordan’s interview segment. Photo: Don Wilson

Celeste Yarnall signs for the fans after her appearance on Graceland’s Main Stage.

Celeste Yarnall and Elvis fan/Photographer Shantay Wood.

“It was one of the great honors of my lifetime to have the pleasure of co-starring with Elvis in Live a Little Love a Little! Elvis I am proud to say became a dear and cherished friend as a result of that meeting. People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime and although there are amazing people that come into and through our lives he is one whose memory I carry with me.” – Celeste Yarnall

Author Peter Guralnick signing his Sam Phillips biography. Peter has good taste in music with Don Wilson’s CD!

I took nearly 500 photos during the events, you may say, “How can anyone do that?” It’s simple. You can get caught up and it is very easy to do. I have culled the very best and also some from Shantay Wood, a big Elvis fan and a great photographer. Since a picture can tell a thousand words, there are more in today’s story. I hope it will make you feel as though you were present in Memphis. If you have never been, I hope this article will make you want to experience it. Next August is the fortieth anniversary of Elvis’s passing. You have time to prepare for and attend all the festivities.

Don Wilson and Tom Brown after the “Conversations On Elvis” event at Graceland’s Main Stage.

Not only does Elvis have a new album going up the Billboard charts, there are some new books that are available. I will be covering them as well. I am on the beat and will bring you some news and tidbits that you will see only here on The Elvis Beat!

Linda Thompson’s long awaited book is now available!

Elvis’ First Houston Rodeo Appearance

This is one of Elvis’s rare press conferences, he didn’t do too many during his career. This footage was shot on February 25, 1970 at the Astroworld Hotel. Elvis would be performing his first live shows in Houston since the 1950’s. Elvis hadn’t performed on stage since 1961, as he had movie commitments. Elvis made his return to the stage in Las Vegas on July 31, 1969 at the International Hotel. Elvis flew in at Houston Intercontinental Airport for the first – and the last time. He kept asking the driver: “Are we in Houston yet?” during the 26 mile trip from the airport to the Astrodome. From then on, Elvis used Hobby Airport and arrived quicker to his hotel in the years to come.

This would be where I first met Elvis, after my father made arrangements with Tom Diskin and Colonel Tom Parker. My dad had known Elvis in the 1950’s and he wanted me to meet ‘The King’. Elvis extended his hand and said “Hi, I’m Elvis Presley.” I shook his hand and said “Nice to meet you Mr. Presley.” Elvis replied “Naw, I’m Elvis…’Mr. Presley’ – that’s my dad over there!” Elvis went on to sign my lP of “Clambake” and said “You like this record?” I replied ‘Yes, I do” Elvis looked amused and said “There’s some good songs on here, let’s see: “Guitar Man”…”Big Boss Man”. That’s the first time I saw that twinkle in Elvis’s eyes.

Elvis was riding high in the charts with “Kentucky Rain”and his other recent hits like “In The Ghetto” and “Suspicious Minds”. The shows that Elvis’s audiences at the Dome would see was like no other, they would see Elvis’s perfected shows as he had done them at Las Vegas’ International Hotel. This would be Elvis’s first engagement outside of Vegas since 1961.

Elvis was driven to and from his gig at the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo by race car driver A.J. Foy in his customized bus. At first Elvis didn’t know it was Foyt who drove at a high rate of speed from the Astroworld Hotel to the Astrodome. elvis siad “Man, slow down!” Foyt replied “Hell, Elvis you are safe with me! I’m A.J. Foyt!” Elvis never questioned him again. Upon first seeing the inside of the Astrodome for the first time, Elvis asked “They expect me to fill this S.O.B.?!” Any fears that he may have had were gone by the time Elvis watched from his window all of the cars navigating their way into the Astrodome parking lot. All of Elvis’s matinee and evening performances for this engagement were sold out!

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My Friend

MY FRIEND

He was my friend, a person who changed my life forever, someone that I will never forget. His name was Elvis – I first met Elvis when I was only nine years old. My dad had known Elvis, meeting him at the Eagle’s Hall in Houston, Texas, that night and he did one song. In fact, my uncle had booked Elvis for the gig on March 19, 1955. Silent western film star Hoot Gibson was there and my dad introduced them. Elvis loved cowboy stars and was pleased to learn that my father was friends with his favourite, Gene Autry. Tommy Sands was also on the show. Little did I know, because of this night, I would be friends with not only Elvis, but Tommy Sands too. I would eventually perform on shows with Tommy.
FAST FORWARD
February 1970: Elvis was coming to Houston for the Houston Livestock Show & Rodeo.
My father arranged with Colonel Parker for us to meet with Elvis prior to one of his performances. Elvis introduced himself and said “Hi, I’m Elvis Presley.” I replied “It’s nice to meet you, Mr. Presley.” Elvis then said “Naw, I’m Elvis. ‘Mr. Presley’ is my dad over there!” It was a short meeting, but it left an impact.
November 13, 1971: My father and I met with Elvis briefly before his performance at the Memorial Auditorium. My dad and Elvis started a quick ‘Cowboy Trivia’ game off the top of their heads and I had some answers, much to Elvis’s surprise. Elvis said “How come you know so much? You’re too young.” I replied “Old Westerns on Saturday mornings.” Elvis grinned and said “Oh!”
November 21, 1971: My parents and sister were killed when their car was struck by a train. There were no railroad crossing guards, nor signals. I was with my Grandmother at the time. It was a mere eight days after my dad and I met with Elvis. When I learned the news, I was devastated. I wrote to Elvis and informed him, I received a condolence card signed by him.
June 18, 1972: Elvis played the Tarrant County Convention Centre in Fort Worth. Joe Esposito escorted me and my aunt to see him at his suite. It was at the Sheraton Fort Worth, on the top floor. Elvis hugged me and said how sorry he was for my loss. Then Elvis said: “A great philosopher once said ‘To live in the hearts of those we leave behind – is not to die.’ I know what it’s like to lose a parent, but you have gained a friend, me.”
I was able to visit Elvis every now and then after that, he made room to visit throughout his hectic life. Not only did Elvis call me friend, but many of his inner circle did as well.

TODAY

For the most part, I have kept silent regarding those times with Elvis. In some respects, I will remain to do so. Charlie Hodge gave me the run through: “Don’t say anything about what you see, because if you do, it will be denied.” That was in the 70’s, years later Charlie participated, as did 200 other friends and associates help tell Elvis’s story. The project was “The Definitive Elvis”. Joe Esposito and I were Production Consultants on this series and set up interviews and conducted them, many times together. The series went on to be awarded by the Guinness Book of World Records as “longest documentary”.

I look forward to share with you my memories of Elvis and I hope you will enjoy them. I will also share news from time to time. I retain my friendships with Elvis’s inner circle and many of those he worked with throughout his 23 year career. I have a massive archive that I will draw from of photos, videos and of course my personal memories.
TCB,
Don Wilson

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